WHEN IS ENOUGH, REALLY ENOUGH....

TO DESCRIBE MY PERSONALITY, IM A PASIVE LIBRA. I CRAVE HARMONY IN MY LIFE TO THE EXTREME,... MY X-FIANCEE, TO WHOM I WAS WITH FOR 5 YEARS IS NOW WITH THE OTHER WOMAN- ONLY 1 MONTH AFTER WE WERE OFFICIALLY OVER. HES NEVER EVEN MET HER, BUT SHES FLYING HALF WAY ACROSS THE STATES TO BE WITH HIM,.... T & I HAVE BEEN HIGH SCHOOL SWEETHEARTS & FRIENDS FOR 3 YEARS BEFORE WE WERE OFFICIAL, & THEN ANOTHER 3 YEARS FOR HIM TO PROPOSE,... I GAVE UP EVERYTHING, MAYBE TOO MUCH FOR THIS RELATIONSHIP, & I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM,... HONESTLY I THINK SHE IS SINCERELY INFATUATED WITH HIM OR MAYBE EVEN DARE I SAY.... SOMETIMES SHE EVEN REMINDS ME OF MYSELF... SHOULD I JUS CUT ALL TIES?? BECAUSE I THINK IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO JUS BE FRIENDS WITH HIM AGAIN NO MATTER HOW HARMONIOUS I AM....??

by BUGABOO 10 Posts
Posted on 7/21/2008 4:07 AM

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Answers for "WHEN IS ENOUGH, REALLY ENOUGH...." (6) (You must be logged in to answer)

Cut ties and think how lucky you are to not have to hire a divorce lawyer. good luck!**huggs***

by Branny 838 Posts
Posted on 8/3/2008 3:30 PM

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I agree to cut the ties....and be glad that you dont have children so you arent tied to him forever. Go make a new life for yourself....a better life. You deserve that and will get that!

by JLK 317 Posts
Posted on 7/29/2008 2:56 PM

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I'm going through a tough divorce right now, and perhaps its best for your sake if you treat this like an addiction. If you don't have children, cut all ties for at least three weeks. Don't contact, email, phone...anything if possible for at least three weeks and see how you feel. I would also recommend you see a therapist to deal with all the emotional baggage. I know it's tough, but you're not alone.

by HurtInColorado 1139 Posts
Posted on 7/21/2008 10:29 PM

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As Alison and Paula have said, you need to let go of him and move on. It will be difficult for you because you still love him but, trust me, you will get over him and you will be better for it on the other side. You can then find a man who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Best wishes and I hope you find much happiness in your life!

by RichBrewer 214 Posts
Posted on 7/21/2008 10:15 PM

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I agree with Paula. You need to cut all ties with your ex. Girl, you should consider yourself very very lucky. He only sucked 6 years out of your life. Many of us here have contributed 15, 20 years to our marriages and then were left all alone. I know you still have feelings for him. We all do, especially in the beginning. That is only normal. Let time heal your wounds. It helps when you start to focus on yourself again. Forget about what he did to you. You do not need to forgive him, but you need to let it go. The sooner, the better.

If I were you, I will send flowers to the new girlfriend and on the card I will say - Thank you for saving my life!!!

by Alison 116 Posts
Posted on 7/21/2008 11:53 AM

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my vote is cut all ties. do you really want to be with someone this flighty?

by paula1 12664 Posts
Posted on 7/21/2008 8:38 AM

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