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Do I contact the other woman?

I'm curious...my husband of many years has had yet another affair.  Am I stupid to want to talk to the other woman?  I want to know...what does she have that I don't, does she know what a liar she is getting herself into? does she realize that if he lies to me, he will certainly lie to her.  I want to know what is in it for her.  Doesn't she care that she is breading up a family?  I know...too many questions to even begin to answer.
by Mechele   61 Posts 
Posted on 7/16/2008 4:29 PM
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You said it all.....he will cheat on her one day too!  What comes around goes around.  Once a cheater always a cheater (at least in my book)...if you had the nerve to cheat once than you have the nerve to probably more easily do it again.
by JLK   303 Posts
Posted on 7/17/2008 9:02 AM
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Thanks guys! Makes sense.  I really does not make any sense talking to the other woman.  She is an idiot too.  I'm sure he will cheat on her one day too.
by Mechele   61 Posts
Posted on 7/17/2008 8:58 AM
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Funny thing my best friend just found out that her husband was cheating on her even though her family and I said he had all the signs.

She did call thee other women and said do you know that this man is married and has two kids. She let thee other woman have it.

When her husband came home she made him call the other woman and say never to call him again.

Now the husband can not make the excuse it was my best friend fault for the marriage breaking apart it was him cheating.

So do what you think is best for you.

Some don't know thee other person is married!
by shock3177   298 Posts
Posted on 7/17/2008 8:54 AM
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here - I'll have the conversation for you...

bitch, who do you think you are? he has a wife, a family! You tramp!

 

If you took better care of your man he wouldn't have come to me - it's your own fault.

 

Like hell it is -

 

go to hell

 

no, you go to hell!


see? unproductive...

let them have each other in their lying cheating temporary bliss, until they cheat on each other - and you go on in your life to find actual happiness, while they stay perpetually miserable.

by spaznskitz   3903 Posts
Posted on 7/16/2008 7:04 PM
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Why bother talking to gfs?  It dont matter what you tell her shes gonna believe whatever he tells her. I been through that and the other women didint know at the time he was married, (or so they say) .
by msmoe   4 Posts
Posted on 7/16/2008 6:23 PM
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I'm sorry, from my point of view she isn't breaking up a family. He is. You say he has cheated before. So how is that her fault.  My ex cheated a lot. I don't blame anyone but him. If he's like my ex he cheated because he could. Not that she has anything you don't. Just because she was vunerable enough to fall for whatever he told her.
by trisha9054   1926 Posts
Posted on 7/16/2008 6:06 PM
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If she's married tell her husband if you want the affair to stop.  Rarely calling the OW/OM does it work out in your best interest.
by falcon81   321 Posts
Posted on 7/16/2008 4:33 PM
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