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You guys called it!

 I must have asked a dozen times... "Are you emotionally involved with someone? It would make things easier if you just told me you were seeing someone".  Well... after 6 months, I got the info. Can't say how. Gonna talk with my lawyer tomorrow. And she is asking for alimony... hummm. I feel like a total idiot. I spent hours getting things together to make this easy for her since I felt so responsible. She actually made me believe I was the one who drove this marriage into the ground. I was ashamed of myself for months. My God... This changes my entire perspective. All she wanted was to justify her actions. Good God! lol All I can do is laugh!
by Desmo    70 Posts   
Posted on 7/31/2008 12:20 PM    
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Rememer this when he comes back and blames you for his actions - You did nothing wrong. If he had been man enough (woman enough in my case) he would have talked to you about issues before taking action. They are cowards in my opinion and in my case she did her best to justify her actions by blaming everything on me. That is the sign of a weak person incapable of facing their own faults. It's easier to blame the world than to understand its your own issues that haunt you. F*$& them both. Yes, move on. There is a whole world out there and you'll be fine.
by Desmo   70 Posts
Posted on 7/31/2008 12:14 PM
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Join the club -- I just found out my soon to be ex has been cheating on me with two other ladies.  He denied it too.  He doesn't know I know and he'll get a rude awakening at our next meeting when I drop this knowlege in his lap.  He is so Catholic and I just wonder what his mom would say if she knew her darling son cheated and I didn't.  I was devastated.  After 27 years I just couldn't believe it.  I hope we are both doing better soon.
by scared27years   33 Posts
Posted on 7/30/2008 5:57 PM
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