I have recently caught my soon to be ex cheating with a client. You can always send an anonymous letter to the President, VP, and or HR Dept.

I know how you're feeling. I had an issue with my husband and hi co-worker back in Nov 07. I found cell phone records of them having hour long conversations between 9 & 11pm several times a week. When I confronted him about it, he claimed they were just "friends" and that she had a boyfriend. We finally separated in Jan 08 and now he goes to the park with her and her son and my two boys, they go out to eat...etc. And he tells me that I need to move on and get over it...blah..blah..blah. I'm over him...I just don't like that whore being around my boys. unfortunatly, there's nothing I can do about it. I'm learning to accept and deal with it. That doesn't mean that I have to like it. I just think it's wrong to bring other people around our children since we are still married. But that's my opinion and he's made it more than clear that he has no morals or values. Just stay strong for your girls. Go to therapy, it will help you deal with your emotions and you will learn how to deal with them in a positive way. Good Luck!!

I hope your divorcing this guy.  I wouldnt do anything. Let her have him.  He"ll do the same to her as he did to you. Let her find out the hard way like you did.  I believe in Karma.  : What comes around goes around:

you all have been so wonderful and I appreciate your support more than you can imagine.  I'm working hard at trying to stay positive for my girls.  I would never do anything malicious to his girlfriend or him (I just wish I could!!).  It's just not me.  Besides, she already got hers in him.  Now he is her problem.  I just wish he'd move away.