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I am having a hard time comprehending how someone can bounce in and out of relationships. If you are divorced that means you have already been with a man that for whatever reason you could not live with. I know you need to meet people and hope for true love. What I am having trouble with is getting rid of one and immediately in love again??? How can you be intimate with someone you don't know? What since does it make to remarry when you've been divorced less than year? How can you meet three different guys while dating and sleep with all three? What happened to getting to know someone before intimacy?

I guess the above is addressed to women, I just feel this is your body why subject it to casual sex with all the risks that are out there.

And for you guys, be honest, are you looking for one night stand, friends with benefits but not commitment or to meet someone you can try to build a lasting relationship with?


by smalltowngirl   18 Posts 
Posted on 7/10/2008 8:22 PM
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What I am having trouble with is getting rid of one and immediately in love again??? How can you be intimate with someone you don't know?

I'm not sure intimacy (sex) equates to love - some people end up in rebound relationships and THINK it is love - but that is just their hurt playing mind games with their heart - and then there are the ones who just purely want their sexual desires satisfied - and love has nothing to do with it. 

What since does it make to remarry when you've been divorced less than year?

do you mean "sense"? If they think they have found the happiness they didn't have in their marriage - more power to them. A divorce doesn't mean you have to go into mourning for years. 

How can you meet three different guys while dating and sleep with all three? What happened to getting to know someone before intimacy? the above is addressed to women, I just feel this is your body why subject it to casual sex with all the risks that are out there.

It's 2008, there are condoms, and a sex drive is a sex drive...it's a double standard that men can boink around but women shouldn't. walking across the street is a risk. 

And for you guys, be honest, are you looking for one night stand, friends with benefits but not commitment or to meet someone you can try to build a lasting relationship with?


Although I'm a woman, I'd say all of the above, depending on the guy - but it goes for women as well.


by spaznskitz   3996 Posts
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