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when did some of you finnaly accept that it wasn't worth trying to save? when did you finally stop deny that it wasn't you it was them even though they blamed it all on you?

by charleybear 56 Posts
Posted on 7/7/2008 8:07 PM

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I wish I knew the answer, then I wouldn't have so many mixed emotions. I don't have an answer for you, but I do want to let you know you are not alone. I am the one that wanted a divorce, but now I am having mixed emotions. I keep reminding
g myself why I wanted a divorce and for how many years I was unhappy. It helps some, but the empty feeling is still there. I think part of the reason I feel this way is he has moved on and I am not ready. We have been separated 2 months and are awaiting a court date. I think at this point I have to find me and what I want. I just have to keep telling myself that. I know I didn't answer your question, just wanted to let you know you are not alone

by findingme 2 Posts
Posted on 7/8/2008 10:48 AM

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I knew it was over when he and I were talking in my bedroom. I was trying to tell him the frustrations I was having with his mother/ my boss. He covered his ears and repeatedly said he couldn't listen to me. When he was finished I told him that he was never going to have a relationship with anyone until he divorces his mother. He told me I "may be right".
We had counseled much of the time we were together. I did everything that was requested of me and he did nothing. I had no regrets as I knew I had gone over and above what I could do. I called my pastor to talk to him about filing the final paperwork and was even told by him that I had done everything I could do. I could not do it on my own.

by mtnvly 783 Posts
Posted on 7/8/2008 8:13 AM

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I didn't have a problem being concerned with what I had done to cause the demise of my marriage. After staying with my X wife four and half years very unhappy, I finally realized it wasn't worth staying married because of the kids, my belief in our vows, my Christian belief of no divorces, and the straw that broke my back was the constant lack of respect with repeated affairs and consistent lying.
Get involved in your church, try to get your husband to attend, and pray for Gods will.

You have the answer in your heart, you have to accept it or foul your self into thinking it may work out.

by Rhett 2 Posts
Posted on 7/7/2008 8:54 PM

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