We've been married 3yrs and we have a 3 1/2yr daughter. My husband left us and moved to his home country. He wanted us to come along but i refused. He's been there since Feb. We had been talking about us joining him but more and more it sounds he doesn't want to give up a 'bachelor' lifestyle. Going to bars/clubs etc. I told him he would need to spend more family time in order for us to move. Now he says that he hasn't been happy for years and he thought it was because he wasnt in his country but has doubts about our relationship. He says he wants to be alone and doesn't love me the same anymore. That he can't be a husband to me. What can i do to change his mind? I don't want a divorce, we made a promise to eachother. I love him very much :(
Stay put.Seems that he loves the nightlife and his country more than you and his daughter. Let him have it. Hope those things keep him warm at night.As was said by other posters, if you join him, you may end up in a world of hurt. The movie "Not Without My Daughter" comes to mind.
Like you, I took my vows seriously. But people change. Sometimes it's best to move on.He's the only one that can change his mind.
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