I am a firefighter and work 24hour shifts. I work 10 days a month and have the other days off. We have joint custody with him having physical custody, I'm trying to work on getting joint physical custody. Our visitation agreement simply states that I can see them basically whenever I want I just have to give him ample notice. I gave him a years notice with my schedule. About two weeks ago he decided that he wanted to have the kids every other weekend. I didn't agree to this because of my job I only have one free weekend a month so it wasn't fair to me. I was willing to compromise and give him two weekends of the month that I was working as long as I got my free weekend with them and part of another weekend that I was working. He didn't agree to that either and said I would be hearing from the lawyer. Well I never heard from the lawyer and I was supposed to pick them up tomorrow when I get off of work at 0830 and he has refused to let me get them because he says, "Remember we are doing every other weekend now." NO we aren't!!!! I didn't agree to that!!!! He hung the phone up on me and then when I called the house phone he had his girlfriend answer it and then she gave the phone to the kids and I had to explain to the kids that I wanted to see them tomorrow but that I couldn't. WTF!!!! What can I do? Can the police help me with this?
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