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I NEED TO BREAATH =(

I feel like I tried for so long... SOO LONG, I was always tryng to save everything, and I love him so much but I hate him!
Its my baby girl 1 bday... a year ago, he was crying on the emergency room... I was so close to die because of my blood preassure, and he was there holding my hand... Its like figthing with 2 diferent people... the man I love so much is death... and I miss him so much... I miss his words, his jokes, his company...but I hate this chetaer, lier, cold heart men, I know I was supossed to see red flags..I know I was supossed to run the first time he cheated...but Now im here, alone with my baby girl and our unborn baby, dealing with agreements and money, and separation of stuff... thats all that is left!!!!!!! there is no more promises, no more nothing... how can a Man love and hate at the same time? Im not scared for money, I have my career, my life, but he is detroying everything we build... he cut all the chances for us to be a family... and he is sick with internet and lies and I just can get him out of my head...the last time I saw him he was ok... we where working things out... I said Good bye, I kissed him and huged him and told him ill be back in 3 weeks... and he plan all this horro behind my back! all this divorce, everything since the first time we meet its been so fast! and I cant get him to stop and see around what is he doing... to me, to them, to us... This cant be happening to me!
I dont know what to do to make this work...for my babies... I feel so young to be dealing with this... why he did this to us???

by carossi 141 Posts
Posted on 8/27/2009 2:24 PM

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Hello, im new here on this website. I am also seven months pregnant, my husband left about three weeks ago he said that love isn't enough and left. I know that our situations are different, but being pregnant and alone is a scary thing. when times get really hard just hold your baby girl and try to think that things have to get better, I understand that you don't see it yet, cause neither do I. There has to be hope cause look at your baby, sometimes i end up hold my son all night long, he is two.

by msprncss82 2 Posts
Posted on 8/27/2009 7:07 PM

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I'm sorry you're going through this. I did see the reply you left on my comment from your last blog, thank you.

Although how I got there is a different story from yours, I was a single parent w/a 3 yr old and a 1 yr old when I was 23 yrs old. Mine are now 21 and 24 yrs old! Time flies.

So I just want to let you know it can be done. I've married having two children (okay, I'm divorced again, but the point is I still had relationships despite being a single parent). :-)
So don't think your life is done, etc. You and your kids lives may be better off without you and him being together.

Don't obsess thinking about him and what he's doing now. Get yourself together so you can be a good mom to your kids cos in the end, you'll realize they're the ones thats gonna matter, not him.

Take care ((hugs))

by lifeinpurgatory 1830 Posts
Posted on 8/27/2009 4:01 PM

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Thank you veeeryy muuuuch! since I try not to cry infront of the baby this site rooocks when I need to vent!

by carossi 141 Posts
Posted on 8/27/2009 3:53 PM

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http://docs.google.com/Doc?id=dc876ktm_9d4mq6f2s

Here is a link to a parenting plan written by a lawyer friend on this site. Read it - print it out and take it to your lawyer- It will be of great help to you as it covers many areas that may become problems in the future...

by mtnvly 3539 Posts
Posted on 8/27/2009 2:53 PM

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You are asking a question that many others in here have asked - WHY?
I am not sure that will ever be answered for you- I am sorry!
All I can say now is take care of you and the little ones. You and your kids are most important right now- and since you are pregnant and had complications it is even more important.
Seems he is a coward- a liar and a cheat. You deserve much better than that!
Hang tough- get covered legally- take care of you and your kids. He is not worth staying with "just for the kids". It will get easier with time-
Stay focused- come to this site to vent and ask question- we are here for you..(((hugs ))) to ya-

by mtnvly 3539 Posts
Posted on 8/27/2009 2:49 PM

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