my ex keeps making me feel like im doing something wrong by moving on , he wont let me go out , he always tells me that hell take my daughter away from me. i cant take it anymore i just want to be happy , he's moved on and has a new baby why wont he let me move on and what can i do abouyt it?
my lawyers frist words to me..."whatever you do DO NOT believe anything your stbx tells you"I was in a controlling relationship and found I just had to believe in myself. Personally because of the current temporary custody orders I have a hard time going out (I have the kids every weekend) and I dont want to miss time with them.I know too that when the time comes I will not be staying local - the world is large and I will avoid the local gossip circles.just dont bring anyone into the kids life now. keep it seperate.
don't you have a visitation agreement in place? Go out when he has the child....that way you aren't "pawning the child off"..sounds as if he is unhappy with his girlfriend and still wants you - as if he isn't over you but knows he can't have you...
you don't have to tell him anything about your life, you are not his wife anymore - remind him of that.
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