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Yesterday my stbx husband was served on the job. Along with the summons and complaint he received a "Standing Pendete Lite Order" signed by the judge. The order includes:1. Injunction Against Harassment 2. Preservation of Assets 3. Payment of Monthly Assests4. Negotiation of Other Conditions 5. Showing Required for Evidentiary Hearing 6. This Court "Rules of Court/Standing Pre-Trial Orders" and Standing Order for Mediation are IBR.To get the ball rolling I created a communication log, next I sent my stbx an email outlining the current months bills, as stated in the order that all bills should be paid as was before the filing of the action. I copied my attorney and advised my stbx to "reply all" when responding and to include his counsel. Have I missed anything? Since he was served yesterday, 7/1/08 and he the order states that the parties "shall" coordinate the payment of fixed bills, how long should I give him to make payments?
hey there - in the future, e-mail me here and alert me if you have anything on the boards you want me to see just in case I don't run across it - it alerts my regular e-mail =)
You did fine - the only thing I'd advise in the future though, especially if you want to keep #1 to a minimum - is to have your attorney send correspondence to his attorney and the two of you discuss things that way - it's what they are there for & you have an indisputable paper trail of communication - if the two of you get into an e-mail argument - and you were the one who sent the initial e-mail - you can't file a contempt charge for harassment.
You take issue with the bills if they go over a week late of the due date...
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