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My wife left a message this morning that she has the papers & will call tonight to go over them!

I am shattered. I've been so sad and depressed for the past month, but until we had the divorce papers, I still held a shred of hope.
Now it appears there is no reason to even hold on to that anymore. I can't think of anything else to say to her about how I have changed and am changing. About how much I love her and do not want this to end. I'm at work now and I feel like I want to go to sleep and avoid everything. I;m not suicidal, but I can rally understand how some people could be driven to that extreme. I know someday it will get better, but right now I can't possibly imagine that day.
And it's just going to be worse tonight when and after she calls.
I hope I can find the strength to deal with this!
Wish me luck!


by JerryF   16 Posts   read more from user >>
Posted on 6/24/2008 11:27 AM

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by Gorf   113 Posts
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I have no words of inspiration. Good Luck, I hope the best for you tonight.
by lovelost   8 Posts
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If you are even thinking of something drastic go see someone.  Seeing a counselor will help you get through this.  It is extremely painful, but you will survive.  Focus on you, find things you like, force yourself to do them.  Right now you need to take care of you.  Time will heal, but it does take time.
by falcon81   174 Posts
Posted on 6/24/2008 11:52 AM
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