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my husband told me last week that he was tired and wanted someone to take care of me, he told me that he was tried of doing it all alone. (I do have a job take care of half the bills and our 1 year of little girl, I cook, clean make sure clothes are ready for the week). I think I do to much. He told me he wants someone to give him money and tell him here go shopping. my husband since he told me he was tired has been acting like he is 21 years old and having a ball. Oh and I failed to mention this man has 3 other kids that I took in as my own and 2 other mothers that I have to deal with. I don't think this man has a clue. I am trying to be strong but it hurts for someone to tell you they are tired and you have been the one in their corner alot when they were down and needed support.
Maybe you're seeing why his other two relationships tanked...anyway, protect yourself. If you don't have a separate bank account, get one and build it. Get every possibly relevant document--car titles, bank account statements, retirement statements, pay stubs, tax returns--and photocopy them all. Then go consult with a lawyer in your jurisdiction.
The only other thing I'd say would be to also consult with a marriage counselor. Both of you. It sounds like he's a yahoo, but there may be issues that can be addressed and fixed.
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