Hi Shira,

Thanks for the comments, God is number one in my life. My Ex seems to have closed her eyes to the knowelege of how God feels about divorce. She accually said "She prayed and got the OK to divorce. She has never been back to the church our family attended and children went to school ( she pulled them out of the christian school). She  graduated a Biblle school,  her theisis was  The Lies of divorce

I am so very sorry. It is hard to get over a divorce, epecially when you didnt want it. I dont know how religious you are, but what gets me through the day is knowing that in the end I will be stronger,and able to love harder than before. God will never put me through anything that I can not bear. He will never leave me or forsake me. The test he is putting me through right now will make me to be the best person I can be, for my children, for my marriage or next relationship, and for myself. It is hard to see that right now, but eventually all of this will happen you just have to have faith, and pray, pray, pray. Surround yourself with the people that love you the most, that will give you the support you need. Speak and think positively!!!!!!!! I am pulling for you!!

P.S. ever heard of the secret? It is an inspirational DVD and book that has changed lives!!!!!!!!!!!