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I have stayed in a relationship with someone who has had several "questionable relationships" over the course of our two years together and now he says our relationship won't last if I don't trust him. How long should it take to heal when someone has betrayed you a repeatedly and now displays behavior that is "questionable"? I am planning on leaving soon but I'm not sure if I'm making the right decision.

by vera read more from user >>
Posted on 5/13/2008 6:13 PM

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Healing times are different for everyone. I divorced my ex as soon as I found him coming out of her apartment but after 9 or 10 months, I went back to him. After we settled down and I thought that things were going to be good again, he began cheating again, not only with the same one before but another gal as well. I spent countless days and nights trying to work it out with him but after many months passed, I just found that I couldn't take the heartache of wondering where he was. Follow your gut feelings. Only you will know when it's time to go. I wish you all the best.

by Deborah-Trevino 224 Posts
Posted on 5/14/2008 6:44 PM

I told him i won't sell myself short any longer and am moving out by next week he tried to defend his actions but I told him my mind is made up

by vera 3 Posts
Posted on 5/13/2008 10:28 PM

You need to go with "your gut". If you suspect he is cheating then he probably is. Is this the way you want to live your life?... always wondering what he is doing? You need to put yourself first and move on. I know it will be hard but do not live this way. Stay strong and hold your head high! keep me posted.

by Barkley 755 Posts
Posted on 5/13/2008 9:04 PM

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