I'm the OTHER woman

I mailed the last set of paperwork myself, she never sent them back, I have the next set of paperwork all ready for this weekend. He has no intentions of getting back with his wife. I'm not going to parade my relationship anywhere, I think you are taking this wrong, I just want to go, sit down and watch a bull riding, nothing more. I know he may leave, thats fine, I'm a big girl, I've been left before, I'm young and successful, so if he does leave its his loss, not mine, I'll bounce back as I always have. I have to intentions of disrespecting her this weekend, I dont want to talk to her or even see her for that matter, I just want to go and have a good time, I'm not gonna hang all over him, he a bull fighter, he will be in the arena the whole time. I just want to be there if anything happens to him while he's fighting. Thats my rock and a hard place, I worry about his safety and about her being there. Do I not go and he gets hurt 2 1/2 hrs away and I cant be there for him or I go and risk upsetting her? He's way more important to me than upsetting her, I'll never have to deal with her again after this weekend.

Why don't you wait to see if he really asks her to sign the papers before thinking about this any further.  Often, the story of the "lost paperwork" gets dragged on and on and on, until the other woman finally realizes he actually had no intention on leaving his wife...which is usually the case. 

So, perhaps you ought to take a deep breath, relax, and wait until this guy is truly single before parading your relationship in front of his wife.  And while you're waiting, put yourself in her shoes for a minute. Because one day, you might have to wear them.

Just a thought.

Danine
http://www.ultimatebetrayal.com