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my husband told me today he is tired and wants a divorce

actually he didnt come out and say it, he said it's my choice and just let him know and he he can call the lawyer this aftrenoon. He says he is tired of putting up with me for 3 years of our marriage, that I am spoiled and i treat other people better. I told him no, i can stay calm with other people because no emotions are involved.. But with him, i get very emotional. He says he put up with my temper for 3 years. Ironically... i've been making a huge effort to control my temper, but he says it came too late and it's not enough. I love him. But i dont want to be with someone who seems unhappy with me...I dont know what to do... Ive tried for 3 years as well, he's not perfect, but his biggest fault is his inability to see and acknoledge his own flaws.. :( i do not know what to tell him when we talk tonight :(


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Posted on 2/27/2008 3:16 PM

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Hi  maybe couseling but if counseling is not a two way mission it may not work.  Pray about this there are many of proverbs about controlling your mouth.  I sit in my room and have to read them or not talk some days.  Find out if your temper is the only issue?! Bet he also has some issues so maybe it really is only part your temper and something up with him that he doesnt want to discuss?  If he wont agree to counseling but yet says its your choice choose to stay and work on you and ifhe sees difference in you without you pointing it out he may not bring up divorce again.  I know it is frustrating.  I will keep you in mind.

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by fool   3 Posts
Posted on 2/29/2008 3:57 PM
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I think, based on what I have been reading, that learning to control your temper and just being nice and showing him respect might turn things around. If he is willing to give it time, maybe you should keep trying. Do you think you need help with anger management?
by nutjob   7 Posts
Posted on 2/27/2008 8:40 PM
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I would ask him to consider counseling. Maybe if you can work through some of your anger issues and he can see he isn't perfect either, you might have a chance.
by Bunnee   115 Posts
Posted on 2/27/2008 7:58 PM
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