19 IN NEED OF HELP FAST!

Brokenhearted1 you need to think very hard about what you are doing.  At some point in everyones marriage there is that feeling the grass is green on the otherside.  It never is.  You have not put any real time into your marriage.  That new feeling eventually goes away and you are stuck being an adult.  You are an adult with a child.  Stop focusing on yourself and focus on your family.  That's right sweetheart you have a family.  Go to counciling now, do not pass go and do not do anything you will regret later. 
  A year-and -a-half, really your 19, baby aside why get married.  You are probaly thinking that I don't know what you are thinking.  Think again.  I had my first daughter at 21, my second at 23.  I wanted out of my realationship, with their dad, more times then I can count.  We stuck through all the crappy times and we still struggle.  It has now been almost 13 years since we met and we have been happily married for just over a year. 
  You need to focus on each other.  Go to church, take a walk, anything that gets the two of you to spend time togeather.  I will say it again, GO TO CHURCH.  It helps build a foundation for a happy marriage.  Find a couple to mentor you.  You train at school and for work no one preps you for marriage.  What attracted you to this person?  Think really hard about that.  My husband was so outraged by what you wrote that he wanted my help to write to you probaly to scould you.  I think it is better to make you think and come at you from this approach.