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i am deployed right now in iraq. about a week ago my relationship with my wife was going great. and the she tells me she wants a divorce becuase she wants to start over and find herself and see if we are meant for each other. i have no idea what this means. she wont really tell me why. she wont change her mind at all. we have been married almost 2 years and a have a 2 year old soon together. i dont know what to do. i go home on leave in 5 days and im wondering what i should due while i am home.


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Posted on 1/8/2008 1:27 PM
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i don't think the hand holding is what has caused this and if so then she really has trust issues. i hope things have gotten easier for you... and things came to some sort of a conclusion.
by razmataz321   64 Posts
Posted on 7/6/2008 6:15 PM
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i tried to tell her that but she said that it is to late. back when i was in basic training i was talking to another girl but it was for more emotional support because she remined me of my wife. and some how i held hands with her twice. i feel horrible for doing that. she said she forgave me for that but i dont understand why she wants to start all over.
by brandon   4 Posts
Posted on 1/8/2008 1:34 PM
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first off i would make sure to try to set up a counseling session or 2 or more while you are home...to get our wife talking. no point in going home and getting into big fights. set it up, show her that you are serious about keeping this relationship. maybe she is just in need of attention? or is there more going on here?
by Mary   179 Posts
Posted on 1/8/2008 1:31 PM
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