you didn't say how far he was into the divorce or the circumstances that he's been dealing with.  If his marriage was dead for years, and the divorce immenent, then there are other considerations.  3 doors down from me lives the most amazing couple, they met while her divorce was almost finalized.  Although they had known each other for awhile, it was simply a friendship, and they rarely talked, but there was something different about the chemistry.  She like most other women have met others of the opposite sex were there was harmless flirting and/or attraction, but she never acted on any of them.  This one was much stronger though but she supressed it and time passed without thinking about it.  Her husband decided that enough was enough and filed for divorce.  Seems he too had started to search for the missing spark and much needed emotional attention.  By chance he reconnected with an old friend from a club he used to belong to, sexual addicts annonymous, the connection was so strong and the feeling something she had never felt before.    The last few years of her marriage were absolute hell for each other and it only got worse until she finally realized that she would be 50 someday and her kids would be gone, and it would only be her and her husband.  He was a decent guy, good provider, but they had stayed in the relationship for the wrong reasons, and faked it most of the time.  She had never been in love before her husband and didn't have past relationships or experiences to know what real love felt like.  She loved him, no doubt, but something was missing.   She struggled for years trying to justify why she stayed, but they were both only fooling thereselves.   The divorce was immenent even though she and her husband worked through the mental part of letting go and not playing the what if game.  The divorce kept getting delayed for reasons out of her control.   Her husband had moved out of the house and started getting closer with his new friend.  He was a dif

ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT.... STAY AWAY FROM ALL MARRIED MEN !!!!!!!!! Turn and walk away from the situation, you maybe feeling lonely, but being with a married man will only bring you more drama and heartache.

O my gosh.... I know I must be late with this response but... NO!!!!!! (EVERYONE) Stay away from married people! Until they are in the divorced dating pool no one should go near them. These people LIE... they have issues! As lonely as you may be, you ablsolutely do not need that kind of stress!

good comments by stolen. kel, you need to stay clear of this guy. i am pretty sure no one has voted on your options because none of them is tell the guy to go away!

I read this, looked at the floor and shook my head....I think my nose even dripped some. Reality sometimes sucks, but that married man has more problems than you do if he's wanting to cheat on his wife...if he cheats on her with you, doesn't that also pre-suppose he'll cheat on you when someone else comes along? Bury your hormones for now and get your life back in order before you start up some sexual interlude. You have a child to think of first and a life to think of second before getting your fancy danced upon.

I agree. I think the key is that he is married, and Imubiquity said it right. You don't want to strike up a relationship with a guy who cheats. Even if things worked out, that would hang over you for as long as you stayed together. You know how tough it is holding together a good relationship, why start a bad one with a married man?