Looking for who is the coolest dad

lovemeknot... thank you for what you have said. It was very well based and got me to stop and think about things. Maybe I should think more before posting such things. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

Does it really matter who is the coolest dad? To me it is the fact that a man "wants" to enjoy his children. That he communicates with them and to the best of his ability show love. That is what is cool. It's the action and not the person that shows what a true character of a father.

You might say: Well, proof of the action might prove the person of his character.

I say: I've seen to many fake actions in life. But when it comes to a child they only want to be loved and wanted. Then they grow up to be teens and want your money. lol... So in a round about way if the supply is there, your cool.

do I see a winning vote up ahead? Could It be.... Well, lets just wait and see fore sure, lol.

Spinner, this poll is directed towards my screen name even though DD will not admit it.  We have been battling all day regarding his vulgar, offensive blogs, questions, and polls.  DD has nothing else to attack me on, so he chooses my name.  To go on the record, which I previously posted to DD's wall, my kids call me cooldad.  They are with me most weekends and we are always on the go - swimming, snow tubing, bike riding, parks, visiting friends and family, etc.  Their mother has days off during the week and has them one weekend a month.  I'm not going to say she NEVER participates in outside activities with them, but most of the time she chooses to let them watch tv or does activities with them in their house.  My ex was always more of a homebody anyhow, which is fine.  I would rather be spending quality time with the kids doing fun activities.  I suppose it is just different parenting styles.  There you go DD.  As I posted on your wall, I have provided you with plenty of attention today which I know you crave.  It's now time for me to move on from you.

It should only be important to the child anyway. And what's a cool dad anyway?   i guess your child would have to decide. I guess you could be cool and not be a good dad. Does that make you a cool dad?

Wow, you are self serving aren't you. You think this post is about you becuase of 'cool'. Please get real in life. So is every post with 'dad' in it about you to? Self serve is not what you think it is so don't think everything is about you.

You sure are getting a lot of feedback on your insightful blogs, questions, and polls today!  It must be killing you that you are not getting the attention you crave.  If you have a real story and real insight, why not share with the group?  I know you said in another post on my wall that only some people know your story.  I am willing to listen and provide feedback either publicly or privately.  Unless I am wrong, I think many are not going to respond to your offensive posts. People will offer insight if they are treated with respect.  Try it sometime.