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Are 'most' woman just really sluts?

When it comes down to 'most' woman, not all, isn't true that most are really just sluts? All the nice nice they say and do is just a mask for who they really are. Most woman just slut around to get what they really wand cause they are too lazy to actually earn what they only deserve.

Men actually work hard and earn what little the get and get cheated out of a lot of what they earn, but most woman take the easier way and slut around.

Are 'most' woman really just sluts?
 


by DarkDay   80 Posts
Posted on 8/13/2009 9:20 AM

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It makes a little more sense.  Thank you, Delia.  I do believe commonplace acceptance and ability to joke has made bad instances more frequent.  Clearly people are getting pissed and sexual assaults are increasing.  Meaning, I think the jokes are not being understood by men and women to be limited to conversation.  Or simply, men and women are not understanding each other.  No diatribe.  Best to you!
P.S. Darn, I thought darkday was pulling out of the funk.  Wrong again.
by AlanE   68 Posts
Posted on 8/21/2009 1:05 PM
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The only way to answer this question is to know most woman. There are over 6 billion adults currently on this planet. To whatever percentage of them are woman, it would be impossible to know most of them to be able to answer this question.

If forced into an answer, my answer would have to be no. As the same question of are most men bastards? Base on the same facts above, I have the same answer of no.

by HIC   23 Posts
Posted on 8/21/2009 11:03 AM
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Sorry, then what was the point of the question?  I wasn't offended because I don't even remotely resemble a slut, not because of how you worded or didn't word your question...I PRESUMED (maybe an error on my part) that you were in pain and I was attempting to point out another point of view...My apologies if you took it that I believe that the women in your life are sluts. I must need that dictionary after all...lol...
by militaryp   2952 Posts
Posted on 8/16/2009 6:16 PM
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Wow, I am now really shocked. Doesn't anyone read or understand english anymore? Where in my post did I ever even once say 'all woman'? Please show me becuase if all people see in this post is me saying 'all woman' than there must be an issue with understanding english here.

maybe before anyone replies to my post they should read what i have wrote several times and use a dictionary so there is no misunderstanding in what i did and did not write.

this is amazing. my basic english writing is not understood as i thought most still used basic english to communicate. shocking and sad. english as died and been replace with a bunch of misunderstood lettering.

' I NEVER SAID "ALL WOMAN", ONLY "MOST WOMAN". DOES THIS HELP TO UNDERSTAND THIS POST NOW?!'
by DarkDay   80 Posts
Posted on 8/16/2009 10:18 AM
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Dark,

Surely there are women who "Slut around" to get what they want.  Us guys do it too. 

But to label all women in that manner is clearly wrong.  Obviously you've had some lousy experiences that have led you to ask this question.  What you might consider, is to see your part in the situation.

Were you with a woman who had "Slut" tendencies?  Did you recognize her as a "Slut" yet continue to invest into the relationship?  If you did, you played into your own despair.

A warm. loving, happy woman is someone I'd climb mountains, swim oceans, and give my blood, sweat and tears for.  A "Slut", on the other hand, not the time of day.

The only constructive thing you can do with your experience is learn from it and move on.  Go find a woman friend who isn't a "Slut" and enjoy her friendship.  You'll be a better man for doing so.  Good luck!
by HereIgo   756 Posts
Posted on 8/16/2009 9:34 AM
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As insulting as this post maybe to others, it is with in my rights to ask such a question in form of posting it. I like everyone here have the right to post any question I wish. I never said that all woman were sluts did I? I only ask if most were. There is a big difference in saying "all are" and asking "are most" so  understand this fact and that I was within my rights just like another other person here would have been.

I never siad that any woman in my life was a slut in my posting of this question did I? I only asked if most were. As to my wife, she is a slut. My mother also a slut, infact most woman I have known seem to get what they want by screwing anyone who will give it to them rather than holding down a job and paying their way. If you fuck for it all the time, what are you them?

This post comes out as offensive but don't let that cause you not to understand what this blog really does say and doesn't say. Get offended if that's what turns you on, but get understanding of what you are reading cause that would really help you to understand the true subject matter of this post.
by DarkDay   80 Posts
Posted on 8/16/2009 9:24 AM
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Alan, you won't see it either. I merely responded directly to you. The other I have zero interest in. Sorry, I don't respond to figments of someone else's imagination. The voices in my own head are enough to deal with *smirk*

The reason it was obvious to me is because I know several of the ladies who laughed on a somewhat more personal level. I was drawing from my own knowledge of them; knowing that if it were a serious incident, they would never laugh at someone so cruelly or gain enjoyment from someone's real life tragedy and pain. But a joke, it's ok to give a chuckle. Does that make sense?

That's all I was saying.

Peace.
by delia_M   2861 Posts
Posted on 8/16/2009 3:51 AM
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So basically you are calling your mom, grangdmom and if you were lucy enough great grandmom a slut.  Duh, without mom's you wouldn't even be around to post something so pathetically stupid. Did you give any thought to how hateful to everyone this post was?  I know my my mom is not a @_##, and I know the precious lady we buried last year who was the mom to my mom was not a #&(#.  You sir need to think just a wee small bit, before you post something like this.  Did you not have a mom?  or just a mother.  When you married did you hope for a mom or just mother?  I am quite sure you did not marry a slut.  Grow up little man, this was just a pathetic cry for attention and you know it.
by Jamesalone   2778 Posts
Posted on 8/16/2009 12:47 AM
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Thanks delia m.  Something I'll hope you'll try to understand from a man's point of view, is that we do not understand when we see laughter for what to a man is worse than death, the distance between a fun event and a horrific event is so far apart, it's confusing and sometimes deeply hurtful.  We don't know if clever phrases and winks is cruel humor, veiled threats, or endorsement.  With men we know it's subdued laughter to appear strong or to not be disagreeable, or a a profit motive (comedian or man attempting "engaging" banter).  That's what I'm trying to say.  We men hurt and of course I understand, no hurt is exactly the same so apples and oranges can be used to differentiate everything.  There are no two pains between the sexes that are exactly the same, or even between to members of the same sex.  But when men see their hurt minimized or argued with (presumably to keep the option of hurting alive) it makes respect of women's issues difficult to support.  If you see things somewhat similarly please help on threads that could use a significant injection of sensitivity from a woman, or, if you're not not in agreement, I still wish you the best.
I think darkday vented and repaired himself already, how about you?  I didn't see even moderate agreement.
by AlanE   68 Posts
Posted on 8/15/2009 6:56 PM
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Well Kitty7470 and Lisababy, you may find it hard to believe he posted this, but your concern if not different form mine when I read zero sensitivity for penis burning or penis super-gluing from women who clearly know their posting hatred with "LFMAO, way to go!" and so on.

Alan, you are trying to compare apples to oranges.

The women who laughed were laughing at what was very obviously meant tongue in cheek, in humor.

This posting clearly...was not.

Bit of a difference there. Intent is the key to most things, and perception is a tricky thing.

by delia_M   2861 Posts
Posted on 8/15/2009 12:33 AM
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Hope you get to feeling better soon...Must have been a rough day...Considering that I do pay my own way and I have worked for everything I have, I do not take offense to this...I realize there are both men and women out there that will sit back and allow someone else to carry the majority of the load...I can't imagine it feels very good to find yourself partnered up with someone you feel that way about.

At one time, I could see the man-hater ability lurking beneath my surface...Fortunately for me, I have some very good male friends that I did not want to paint with that brush, it made me realize that I couldn't fault an entire gender because my ex turned out to be a real jackass...It didn't make everyone a jackass...Hopefully you have some women friends that will make you see that truth for yourself as well. Good luck.
by militaryp   2952 Posts
Posted on 8/14/2009 11:30 PM
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Well Kitty7470 and Lisababy, you may find it hard to believe he posted this, but your concern if not different form mine when I read zero sensitivity for penis burning or penis super-gluing from women who clearly know their posting hatred with "LFMAO, way to go!" and so on.  Please ensure you speak out strongly against those women (you're not those, too, are you?) and then we may have a reason to respect each other, for a long-awaited change.  We men NEED to hear that.  Yes, DarkDay was spreading his hurt and temporary hate.  Sounded like his rat-race survival was not met with love when he got home (his particular case).  Some jobs are worse than others, and at the end of the day we need EACH other.
by AlanE   68 Posts
Posted on 8/14/2009 7:47 PM
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I'm working on my willing suspension of disbelief right now.
by Natalie   729 Posts
Posted on 8/13/2009 6:23 PM
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Darkday, what is your problem!
I'm not a slut. I am a hard working woman who earns her own way, paid for her own house, raise my son alone after his father walked out to be with another woman while I was expecting, paid my way thru college, paid for my own car.
I would suggest Darkday if you are not in counseling, run don't walk to the near counseling center and get some help for your attitude toward women and life in general.
Not posting again would be a good idea. I find it hard to believe that  you don't realize that this was offense to everyone. I think you just like to stir up trouble.
by Lisababy   124 Posts
Posted on 8/13/2009 4:58 PM
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The thing is, DarkDay, it is  rude and offensive, and for the life of me I can't believe you didn't realize it when you posted it.
by Kitty7470   2620 Posts
Posted on 8/13/2009 4:01 PM
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You know what... I am sorry I ever wrote this post. It's very rude, insulting, and stupid. I am truley sorry for the hurt and damage my post has caused everyone. I will think more of others feelings before I post again. I hope this horrible post and moment does not reflect on others or happen again.
by DarkDay   80 Posts
Posted on 8/13/2009 2:57 PM
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No need to apologize.

---------

Like an ill-fitting brassiere, he's just getting it off his chest.
by Natalie   729 Posts
Posted on 8/13/2009 2:56 PM
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I am sorry but I find this a little offensive.
by mtnvly   3539 Posts
Posted on 8/13/2009 2:33 PM
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