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Flirt To Get What You Want

Would you flirt with your ex to get what you want?  Be it more money, more time, just to have 'fun' with them in the presence of your kids?  


by HurtInColorado   1139 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2009 10:54 AM

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To ask such a question shows you can not think of others but only yourself as you go day by day. The lack of only thinking of one self (and your question here shows that) is a sign of illness. It's alarming and you should really get mental help.
by HIC   23 Posts
Posted on 8/22/2009 12:02 AM
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i am sorry but no way.. i would never do that, not even for the kids.. i think it makes it harder on the children in the long run..
by cherbear   5182 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2009 7:50 PM
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No, I wouldn't, I feel like it's dishonest and, well, probably wouldn't work anyway.
by Natalie   729 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2009 4:45 PM
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I love your responses V. 

I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of flirting.  Besides, he's gone completely gray in the past 6 months, gained the 30 lbs. that I've lost and is an inconsiderate asshole.  Ummm, not even an option.  Not worth lowering myself.
by flutterby   829 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2009 3:09 PM
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My standards are much higher than that.
Answer:  NO WAY!!!!!
by Kay46514   229 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2009 2:18 PM
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I want my x to  burn in hell. That way I'm not responsible.
by bluebird   1157 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2009 1:08 PM
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No way. Not right now.....I would not want to give him the satisfaction of thinking that I was flirting with him and I would not want to give him that ego boost. After all he has done to me and my kids, he doesnt deserve to feel good about himself. Plus, he would just think he could "hit that" if he wanted to and I would not want him to think that he could have me! In the future, if things simmer down, I might...just to manipulate him into doing/giving something. He deserves it.
by AnaBella72   193 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2009 12:44 PM
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No way.  I wouldn't want to:
1) be misleading 2) cheapen/lower myself.  

If I 'wanted' something from my ex, it would have to be something that was already due me and I would request it. 

I wouldn't ask my stbx for anything outside of that.
by lifeinpurgatory   1830 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2009 11:43 AM
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now thats scary LOL
by Gomezz   734 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2009 11:34 AM
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I am still trying a way to give him a bad case of Moctezuma's revenge....hmmm maybe I could flirt to get him to try some of my "famous" soup...(as she throws back her head and laughs wickedly......)
by vlady   2123 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2009 11:09 AM
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