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I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I WANT TO DO? WHAT DO YOU THINK I FEEL I NEED TO DO, LEAVE OR STAY?

How does one decide? I have been married for over 17 years now, to a military officer, three children, a house, dog, the American life. Children that idolize their father and think he is just the best. And now I am faced with some very life changing decisions. Not just for me but for the ones I love. I have been with him since high school and we have had so much fun and travels in our marriage. Along with his affairs. I know of two, one maybe a month long after 7 years of marriage…I forgave him and we started over and our relationship got much better than before…then the big one a three year affair....and that has came to a head in our relationship, I don’t know if I can stay and try to work things out…how do I go on? Or do i? do I move with him this summer to Hawaii for three years? Oh please god help me deicide!!! What is best for me, the kids….ect…I have no idea what I want or how to figure out what I want!!!

by DAZEDNBROKEN 8 Posts
Posted on 4/17/2009 10:16 AM

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Lisa Cannon
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Hi Dazed and Broken -

Please read the post I left on your other blog today.

It's important.

Good luck, and get help.

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by Lisa Cannon
Posted on 4/18/2009 12:32 AM

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