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Are Flowers a Rule after Sex?

After you have sex for the first time with a new man, are flowers a rule -- meaning should a man send them to you? 


by Flagirl   288 Posts
Posted on 9/2/2008 3:35 PM

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Branny...."here comes peter cotton tale, hopping down the bunny trail, hippity hopping orgasims on the way" oh no...I'm back in that funny mood. Energizer rabbit...keeps going and going and going and going and going ......I don't "need" flowers after sex. But it is nice....
by ec   176 Posts
Posted on 9/11/2008 5:05 PM
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At this point, I'll settle for the sex. ;) No need for flowers.
by asim   775 Posts
Posted on 9/11/2008 4:33 PM
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LMAO if the sex was so bad you need to send flowers for an apology then you also need to send a rabbit and a few hundred batteries to back that up.   And again, change your name and leave town because we all know us girls are gonna tell EVERYONE how bad you were.  I would rent a bill board lol
by Branny   838 Posts
Posted on 9/11/2008 4:10 PM
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Was the sex great? If not they may be "I'm sorry" flowers.LOL
by ec   176 Posts
Posted on 9/11/2008 1:53 PM
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Childless,
 Dont forget the SAPPY HALMARK card if you reall want to be rid of a woman.  If she keeps calling you after that....she is a real nut job so you better be ready to change your name and leave town! 
 That is a real good way to sort thru the crazies. Too bad it dont work on men. My life would be alot easier. ha ha
 take it easy all!!
by Branny   838 Posts
Posted on 9/10/2008 1:47 PM
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Could not agree more with Jack!

Did Mr. Big send Carrie flowers after their first hookup?  NO.  (He married a model instead, as I remember).  If he had, she would have dumped him straight up...in fact, it's totally something Aidan would do...

Now that I think of it, if ever I need to get rid of a woman in future, I'll send her flowers and a note saying I really like her!
by childless   534 Posts
Posted on 9/10/2008 1:44 PM
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LOL paula, you must have posted a split second before me.

  BUT you just proved my point when you said " It's just flowers"  LOL
  Impersonal. Save them for my funeral wether you slept with me or not LOLOLOL
by Branny   838 Posts
Posted on 9/10/2008 1:43 PM
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I wouldnt want flowers after sex.  Maybe before would be nice.  After, I am happy with .... maybe some  conversation? Not the serious kind but the intimate relaxed joking banter that shows he still sees me as  a person he wants to spend his time on.  Something meaningfull but not full of to many promises I guess I would say. 
  As much as I love to get flowers (red & white roses) lol
 Flowers have become quick and impersonal. Sleep with some one and realize you are not interested but cant let them down easy....send flowers and change phone number.
 Nope, after sex, I want some time and attention.  Keep the flowers and overly mushy sentimental cards. Call me and say something silly to make me laugh.  Let me know I am in your thoughts, that means much much more to me.
by Branny   838 Posts
Posted on 9/10/2008 1:41 PM
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wow, it's pretty obvious i'm alone here on this one.  really?

normally the folks on this site would sway my thinking on issues, but i'm going to stand firm on this one.

68% of you voted no.  i'm shocked by this.  and pretty sad too. 

come on guys, it's just flowers.  you don't even have to speak - no need to be tongue-tied or nervous about what to say the next morning.  just send flowers. so much easier.

chivalry should not be dead.
by paula1   12661 Posts
Posted on 9/10/2008 1:34 PM
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Every time I ever sent flowers to a lady I was dumped withen the week for being to needy. Women seem to want a man that doesn't care in the beginning. I have always wondered why that is like that. Yes I have tested that and it seems to be true.
by Jack3991   17 Posts
Posted on 9/10/2008 1:28 PM
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Never thought about that one.  Had to laugh.  I guess a few guys owe me some flowers!  Should I track them down and let them know?
by meteor   488 Posts
Posted on 9/2/2008 11:40 PM
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How about before to relax you and make it feel special, and to have a good start to a good time and later for the enjoyment. I have no clue. I've never had a man to treat me in a special way.
by bleedinglovepain   760 Posts
Posted on 9/2/2008 5:47 PM
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First time I ever heard that one. I've been missing a lot. Two husbands and no flowers ever.
by trisha9054   4967 Posts
Posted on 9/2/2008 5:25 PM
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I'd think before, not after. If after, it'd really be before the (hoped for) next time.

But what do I know? I'm just a man.
by jhs   555 Posts
Posted on 9/2/2008 4:18 PM
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Why?
by Flagirl   288 Posts
Posted on 9/2/2008 4:07 PM
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Yes.
by paula1   12661 Posts
Posted on 9/2/2008 3:36 PM
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