Reason filed in Divorce Papaers

I almost went cruelty.
But I realize he is just sick and needs mental medical care.  I went with no fault.

Where is the choice for alcoholism and drug use?

I filed for separation when my ex left. We had continual problems with his binge drinking, verbally abusing my( previous marriage)children and with his mother meddleing in our marriage. He helped to pick out the house we lived in and it wasn't even a year after moving he wanted to move again. The problem with that?He didn't work and I was supporting us. He said he couldn't live here.I told him if he wanted to move to show me the money as I was not paying for it. My house is 5 minutes from my kids schools, he didn't help with them and it made my life easier.  His mother would tell me one thing and him another. He even painted my living room this ugly yellow( which I hated ) and when we were discussing repainting his arguement was..even mom said I should leave it. I said..well your mom doesn't live here..I do. Once "they"decided they were going to build a barrier in my living room because he wanted a "study" , another joke. They didn't think about the fact that I have a stove in that room for heat and that "room" would have been unbearably hot. Not to mention that no heat would have went to the rest of the house. The 3000 stove would have been useless.
He was bipolar disorder and would not stay medicated. When he became manic he used alcohol to medicate. It started as 1 beer, the next night was 2..and it kept going until he was hammered every night, putting away a 12 + of guiness. Then depression would set in and he would hole up in our bedroom.
My kids could do nothing that didn't irritate him , they were not even allowed to walk thru the front yard( he patroled it). Once my youngest son accidentally let the car door slam on my daughter, he threatened to smack him. It was like being married to a rebellious teenager who was 40 years old. Good grief. When I read what I am writing I can't believe it myself!