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Seperated now for 3 months. Not actively trying to "work on it". ( I would like to but he refuses ). Marriage has been going down hill for a couple of years. I have had a crush on someone else as soon as the hubby said the magic words "I'm not IN LOVE with you anymore". Nothing serious, just office style flirting- nothing more! Now we have confided in each other many of our thoughts and dreams. He is also friends with the STBX. So nothing has ever gone past just smiling and talking. Now that it's obvious that the STBX does not want to work on things or come home, the crush has been my emotional shoulder to cry on. Come to find out he has also had a crush on me, but due to the marriage, neither one of us ever stepped over the line. But now things have changed, and I have openly admitted to him my feelings and darkest desires. Should I get intimate with him, or stay faithful to my marriage that has been over for a long time now?
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