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Do I tell him i filed?

I am filing for divorce this week. When me and my husband split up I told him that we would give it a year and see how we feel if we still didn't have the feelings then we would divorce. Well it's only been 4 months since we split. He has a live in girlfriend i have a long distance boyfriend. He hasn't given me agreed upon monies for child support. He is still in love even though he has a girlfriend he text me everyday talking to me like i'm his best friend. I'm nervous cuz i don't know if i should tell him i'm filing for divorce. Should i tell him or just let him get served. He hasn't been the nicest person since all this he plays alot of head games with me.

by wrestlemeoff 6 Posts
Posted on 8/11/2008 3:08 PM

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I would always recommend taking the high road, you should tell him.

by mominny 162 Posts
Posted on 8/11/2008 4:32 PM

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You should tell him. Why cause problems while things are civil?? If you're afraid he'll talk you our of it, then tell him RIGHT after you file. There's no sense in making him angry or surprising him... Keep communication open.

by 5babemom 283 Posts
Posted on 8/11/2008 3:45 PM

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