married 9 monthsits his home not mine..............should i contribute when his deed is his only and it will probably go to his kids that i dont speak to?income tax refund should it be split..he received my deductions?he pays for his moms cell bill, she makes as much money as him and is not disabled ,he has other siblings?life insurance that was aquired after marriage at his new job,he put me on with his kids,is this fair? he didnt even discuss this with me?his mom told me to leave his home should she apoligize?
was all of this kind of thing going on before you married? and if so, why in the world did you get married?on the house - if you live there, I can see you contributing to the cost of it - if you lvied on your own you'd be paying rent...income tax- yes it should be splitcell bill - it's his family, he has the right to pay for whatever he wants tolife insurance - his kids deserve to be taken care of as well as you if something happens - he doesn't need your permission for who he puts on his policy
mom - not knowing the whole story, who knows, but she never will so I suggest you drop itbrother - yes it is normal to have conversations on all sorts of topics with a close family memberbottom line, if you are unhappy, and you can't live this way, then you need to get out and find a person who will make you happy.
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