its hot out - he took airconditioning

unless i put the electric in my name, he said he will keep pulling the airconditioning out of the window. he will not pay for MY airconditioning.... but the dogs can go in an airconditioned room. he said he will cut the cord if i put it back. shall i add that he is mad i won't give him money to pay the mortgage. (i have already put most of the bills into my name after 20 some years of marriage) he makes 3x's more money than me. and has also tapped out 4 credit cards in his name. i have contributed to NONE of that debt. is he a jerk or am i being unfair?Shall i also add that he cancelled our joint account, took the money out which forced me to get mine and my daughters car insurance in my name and pay that bill also.During the marriage, i worked part time and did contribute to expenses for the kids. the deal when we go married, we live on his paycheck and my part time job went to extras.this is not the first time he maxed his credit cards.... we got them down by refinancing and me selling some stock that i had before marriage.anyway.. just venting 

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