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Proceeding w/divorce

Latest is that last Sat., I and my spouse went to counseling and basically a lot of our questions were answered, my spouse made it very clear to the couselor that he needed time to end his affair w/ the other young lady becuz she has deep feelings for him, after hearing that I made my decision to proceed with the divorce. My spouse has emotionally hurt me and our 3 children and yet all he can still focus on is not hurting the feelings of his lover, I cannot and will not continue on with him, I deserve love and so do the children. 


by Dannielle   2 Posts   read more from user >>
Posted on 7/8/2008 5:04 PM

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He's a fool you deserve better for you and your children.
You did it, you tried counseling, didn't work move on.
I'm curious to know what the therapist responded to that?

My stbx and I went to one session, and after hearing some stories
she looked me straight in the eye (with hubby sitting next to me)
and asked me, "why are you with him?! I said, " because I love him"
and she said, "Love ain't enough!" I'll never forget that. I should have listen
I stuck around for another 2 years. She was so right.

Good luck to you.

by asim   719 Posts
Posted on 7/8/2008 9:34 PM
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gag - he needs time?

I'd have barfed on his shoe right in the therapist's office the second I heard that verbal garbage rolling out of his face if that were my husband.

 

Your kids and you deserve respect - and this dingleberry isn't giving it to you...

 

file away!

by spaznskitz   2500 Posts
Posted on 7/8/2008 7:30 PM
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