I live in Texas which has a no fault divorce system, after one year of dragging this on. I have spent a small fortune. My husband doesn't want the divorce, I do. Time has marched on and I feel guilty because I do not like him, not to mention love him anymore. He plays with my head and tells me that marriage is tuff and that the grass is not greener. I know that, Marriage is about respect and trust. We do not have that . We went to a Dr. Phil Relationship Rich seminar here in Dallas. They taught many skill for communicating and forgiving each other. There come a time when IT is just too late........... Either I am numb or in denial? I just have no feelings? This is second divorce so I know there is life after the big D.......
You never get married expecting to get divorced - so of course there is a fair amount of guilt, even if it is the right thing to do - if a horse breaks a leg in three places, you have to put it down, but you still feel bad pulling the trigger.
Feeling numb is a coping mechanism. It helps you get through what you need to -
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