What about a car I'm not supposed to know about. How do I find it. Do I care?

I completely forgot I posted this.  Thanks for your responses.  We have no joint checking or credit card accounts so when I pulled my report in March there was only my information.  I didn't think I could get his info even though I am his wife, so I didn't try.  Anyway, We are still in the same house because I haven't filed yet nor have I told him I'm going to get a divorce.  So I meant my discovery process.  I have been learning all I could, on the sly about his spending, etc.  and I have found things I am amazed about.   Also, he didn't buy the car to get around in.  He has a brand new GMC Z71 pick-up and a small Nissan PU right here at the house.  So where's the mysterious other car?  That's why I care.  He seems to be supporting (or at least helping) someone he doesn't want me to know about.   Yet he is so stingy with me.  So now I get why he's that way with me.   He needs no conserve all he can for the other women.  And, no, I didn't mean woman.  He just isn't the man I thought I married 22 years ago.  A blind me.  The "tell tale signs" started 15 of those years ago.  I'm going to get out before he can hind too many assets and I find myself dumped and too old to take care of myself.  (I will be 60 in Nov.) Blastit!

ummmmmmmmmmmm - hang on here - if they are in a divorce proceeding - if she looks at his credit report, he could file for identity theft. She, as an individual,  has no legal right to look at his credit report. (actually you don't have the right even if you are married)

But what I don't get is why you care? The guy has to get to and from places - the court isn't going to force him to sell it nor is it really going to impact anything. If he needed a car he needed a car - let it go.

 

 

I'm a family law attorney

Great advice to check the credit report, I think all you need is his date of birth and his social security number.

Paula, She can go to freecreditreport.com and get reports on him and her for free. You're entitled to one free credit report each year. They can be printed out from your computer. I check mine every year. I can't do his because we're now divorced. You can get to all three credit agencies from that one web site.

yes. pull your credit reports.   pull all three.   go to a reputable, non profilt credit counseling agency and they can help.  all loans will be on that report.