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to divorce or not, that is the question.

we are best friends, but not "lovers". my husband is physically attracted to me but im not with him.
do you think things are just going to get worse? should we seperate?

by missmanda 4 Posts
Posted on 6/25/2008 2:47 PM

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no, seek help. a counselor or someone else.
no, you need to wait it out. you will always love him, but you wont always be attracted to him
yes, things will only get worse.
yes, get out while you still can!
yes, if you seperate now, then there is a chance you two will still be friends. and perhaps get back together one day.
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I think there is a lot more to the story that we would need to know before offering advice. How long have you been married? Are there children involved? Why do you think you aren't attracted to him? These are all issues that you can explore with a therapist. But in the words of the immortal Carrie Bradshaw, you deserve the zsa zsa zsu at some point.

by duchick 603 Posts
Posted on 7/3/2008 8:50 PM

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You will need to address this at some point. If you are not attracted to him physically, then that leaves a huge door open for someone else to fulfill that that role in your life. If he is truly your best friend, then you owe it to him to work on the issue through counseling. Divorce is not the only answer here, but you do need to find clear and stable ground - that you both agree upon.

Good Luck.

by HurtingDad 22 Posts
Posted on 6/28/2008 11:24 PM

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I would never vote on someone life! You are young and have many year ahead of you. Get some counseling! It you are still friends then I hope you are still in LOVE. and Love has its ups and downs. Don't run when its down!

We all change as we grow older( even thou 22 is not old) we all do change... love is not seeing those changes because it does not matter.

Good luck!

by Gorf 162 Posts
Posted on 6/25/2008 5:16 PM

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