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I have been married for 26 years and although I care very much about my husband I am no longer in love with him and I don't think I have been for many years. I did have an affair about 10 years ago but we both decided at that time that our kids were more important and decided to stay in our marriages - I moved to another state and the kids are all grown and gone. Now this man has come back into my life again and I am sure that I have loved him along and feel this is my second chance to be with him. My husband and I have grown very much apart over the past couple of years and hardly spend any time together at all and hardly even talk to each other. When I told him I was thinking about leaving that I just didn't have the same feelings for him anymore he says that our marriage can be saved and he will change so the past couple of weeks we have been trying but I just don't feel in love with anymore no matter what he does. I feel like in a couple of months it will just be back to the same old ways.
I have been married for 26 years and although I care very much about my husband I am no longer in love with him and I don't think I have been for many years. I did have an affair about 10 years ago but we both decided at that time that our kids were more important and decided to stay in our marriages - I moved to another state and the kids are all grown and gone. Now this man has come back into my life again and I am sure that I have loved him along and feel this is my second chance to be with him.
My husband and I have grown very much apart over the past couple of years and hardly spend any time together at all and hardly even talk to each other. When I told him I was thinking about leaving that I just didn't have the same feelings for him anymore he says that our marriage can be saved and he will change so the past couple of weeks we have been trying but I just don't feel in love with anymore no matter what he does. I feel like in a couple of months it will just be back to the same old ways.
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