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I am seeking advice ... I have filed for a do it yourself Absolute Divorce in NC. Followed the guidelines according to the Info Packet and have set a court date in accordance with the guidelines.However, I have now found out thru my ex that she has filed thru her attorney a motion to extend it out an additional 30 days. Which I understand she can do in order to answer to the complaint. She wants to use my court date for settling the QDRO affects which have been defined by our Separation Agreement. In other words she is piggy backing off the divorce date to save court costs. My question, and I cannot get an answer, is:Who resets the Court Date?, or does her lawyer settle via the motion of extension and they set the date thru the clerks office.Do I still need to show up on the original date that I assigned when I set the Calander from date of service.I am so confused now, it was simple whebn it was just the Absolute Divorce!!!!!!
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