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Unsure and confused

A close friend of ours died with a little help with drugs about 3yrs ago .  It made me take a long look at my life.  I was a Friday nighter and decided to quit.  I totally enjoy being clean.  But my husband took a turn for the worst.  I have been doing what I can to help our marriage.  Books, asked advise, read articles etc... He won't quit.  So I decided I needed to get ready for a divorce. I've been working on it for about 6 months.  Of course in the mean time just a month ago I ran into a friend from my highschool days and we've been talking and my feelings have increase for this person, but I still love my husband.  So I decided to talk to him once more.  He finally said he will give it 100% effort to get clean and make the marriage work.  Now I don't know what to do.  I have all this anger towards him.  What should I do?   


by marie360   2 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2008 9:57 AM

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congratulations for quitting...not everyone can do that as easily (not saying it was easy for you...but for some it's even harder). 

i think you need to help him.  i think this new person is just exciting and a ton easier than having to deal with your husband and his addiction.

if he says he is ready...and only he can do this.....help him.  get him into rehab or group meetings or whatever.

think of it this way. you can help him get clean..see if you two have a future while clean and sober.  if you do, great for both of you.  if you don't, well at least you did the right thing.

if you don't help him, you'll always wonder.
by paula1   5972 Posts
Posted on 6/23/2008 10:01 AM
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