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Unfortunately for financial reasons my spouse and I have to continue living together until I graduate from college this December. He told me he wanted a divorce a few months ago, and has refused to go to any counseling. The first couple of weeks after he asked for a divorce we still had sex which I know was completely wrong, but I was so emotionally confused I unfortunately had no judgment. Since then I have come to my senses and we are no longer having sex(because that's all it is to him) and he is constantly whining about being sexually frustrated and what not. -Did I also mention that I had found out that he cheated on me? Anyway, I walked into the room he's staying in one night to ask him something and he was watching a porn video. If that wasn't enough, I start finding all of this porn downloaded on our computer and tons of porno sites in the internet history. I think this stuff is absolute trash and asked him why he's doing all of this. His reasoning is that he still has needs, and that I should be happy that he's not going out elsewhere to get satisfied. Like he was threatening me he would do it or something! I can't stand this, I've tried blocking sites, and putting restrictions on searches, but it still keeps popping up. He also will try to deny it as first when I find new evidence of his porn habit. I don't want this on my computer or in my home, and have no choice but to live here for the next 6 mos. Should I just live with it, or what could I possibly do???
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