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I didn't follow my advice- I started dating and the boyfriend is too serious for me

I started dating too soon.  My first real date , without alcohol involved has turned in a 11 month relationship.  At first I was swept off my feet.  We partied together, danced and it was party during our evenings.
He is fairly generous but I feel like I want out of the relationship and I'm being wimpy about it.
He hasn't done anything wrong, I just don't feel complete and am getting feedback from my friends that I'm no longer the outgoing happy Leah I used to be.  The constant analyzing over my dilemma is weighing on me heavily. 
I don't want to hurt his feelings.  He tells me he loves me.   
by Leaho   10 Posts
Posted on 6/14/2008 5:27 PM
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You need to follow your heart and do what you think is best for you.  Be honest with him and yourself about where you stand in the relationship.  It may not be easy but the longer you wait the harder it will be and likely the more pain it may cause the both of you...good luck and be strong!  :)
by SheScraps   10 Posts
Posted on 6/22/2008 12:29 PM
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You need to have more time dating.  If he is serious he'll let you go and wait for you to come back to him.   good luck:)
by blee   96 Posts
Posted on 6/14/2008 9:59 PM
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I'd listen to your heart.  If you're not feeling like you're totally in the relationship then it's probably a sign.  We never "Overcome" these things.  We "Settle" but we don't get over them. 

There's no shame in knowing he's not for you.  It's ok.  Better you know now than if you were married.  If you want to slow it down, and remain casual, tell him.  If he doesn't want to, that's fine, it's his perogitive.  At least you've been honest.
by Robert-Boyd   3948 Posts
Posted on 6/14/2008 9:41 PM
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