Cant take the agony......................

Ok, My husband has gotten into some big trouble with his commanding officer over this affair with his co-worker. For those of you not in the military, the military no matter what branch does not play around with that adultery mess. It is consider breaking military laws. Being apart of the military we are suppose to uphold certain standards and playing hanky panky instead of taking care of your family is immoral and brings discredit upon the military. Anyhow, he got off pretty easy. He just got some paperwork, that will pretty much follow him the rest of his miliatry career. As for her since she is higher ranking, she will get a more severe punishment. may even get some rank taken away. I don't care either way, because no one cared about me or my feelings when they were playing under each others clothes.
So he is mad and pissed at me for getting him in trouble. Whatever right..... yeah....... I mean you both knew the consquences when you did what you did, from the military perspective and also from a married aspect. Now...... he no longer wants to work anything out with me, he says I will never change, and even if I did he feelings for me will be no different then what they are right now, because he is done, and I have pushed him away so much for so long, that he doesnt even feel anything for me except love.  No passion, no desire, no want, and not even in love with me anymore. My take on it....... I feel he is full of crap, he is mad because I took away his contact and relationship with his beloved. He doesnt feel anything for me, because he is in love with her......duh....does he think I am an idiot or something? I never heard of anyone being in love with two people at the same time. Get real............. 

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