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My husband has been cheating on me for the last 3 years.  Every time I find out it is ended.  He says he wants things to work out between us and that he loves me.  He is only good for 2 or 3 months and then starts again.  I cannot deal with this any more but PA law is horrible and I have been the main supporter of the family.  The money from my home in NY bought this house.  We have 3 young children; a son 8 1/2 and twins 7 (boy and girl).  My husband is either a good father or cannot be bothered with them depending on his mood.  I do love him but will not deal with other women in our lives.  I cannot lock him out according to PA law.  He will not move out.    What do I do? 


by Tadapoint   1 Post   read more from user >>
Posted on 5/9/2008 3:51 PM

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Go see your lawyer. Have an agreement drawn up about the property. Make sure you have proof of how it was paid.
 If he won't leave then you may have to, but don't leave until you have legal documents drawn. Adultery laws are different by state. I am told it is hard to prove. If you can ...you will end up at the upper end of the stick.
If you leave before being advised to do so you may lose everything. You and the kids will lose more and you need to think about him.
Sounds like he has a problem and you are a rock that he keeps returning to . Sounds like he is playing you ...
by mtnvly   1761 Posts
Posted on 5/9/2008 5:30 PM
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