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5/10/2008 6:11:35 AM
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He wants a divorce and I dont

just can not imagine this pain lessening. It took me 10 years to get over loosing both my parents. I had to hit rock bottom before I finally realized that I can not change it and just live for the legacy that they left me. I have been in counseling before when we were seperated and those tools I still have. This is different ths time. If it sounds at all possible, during and after our separation my love had grown even stronger for him. My children feel the same way. 


by HLM   read more from user >>
Posted on 5/3/2008 6:11 AM

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HLM, I truly understand the ache in your heart. My wife recently divorced me because "she's not happy" . I still love her. I have started over in a small one bedroom apartment with nothing but the cloths on my back. The worst part for me is missing my boys. God I miss them so. All we can do is cry when were hurting and shout when were angry. Let it out when you can, even if your alone. There are no short cuts we must endure the path forced upon us. One day at a time. Hang in there and remember your not alone.
by WarrenG  14 Posts
Posted on 5/5/2008 9:01 PM
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I know you do not want to here it, but the pain will lessen, millions have been through the same thing including myself. Sorry, I know that right now that doesn't make you feel better but in time you will, you must keep yourself busy though, start doing some social activities, that will help
by gomundo2  60 Posts
Posted on 5/3/2008 9:59 AM
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