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5/9/2008 1:19:21 PM

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I am the wife of a drug user.  Long story short, he is living with another addict, who happens to be another woman, whom he says isn't living there right now and is staying with her mom. He has asked me for money to my last penny. He is in recovery right now. Going to groups, etc. But he's not staying with me. He says he can't stand the townhouse we live in. It reminds him of getting high. He has never really been there for me. All he calls me for is money. He doesn't have a job, hasn't in the 2 yrs we've married. He gets an annunity check every month. It isn't much, but he blows it on junk. Gives me nothing and expects me to pay his bills while he blows his check. My question is, should I just get it over with and file for divorce? I want his things out of my home. I do still love him, but he doesn't pay for anything and still asks me for money so he can blow his check.  We have no kids, but his being a drug addict doesn't help any. Any suggestions would be helpful 


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People with addictions are very manipulative, this can be true even if they are in rehab.  This man is using you.  What are you getting from this relationship other than hurt and a draining bank account???

Life is too short.  He is an adult man and responsible/accountable for his own life and actions.

My suggestion; break all ties to him and find a good counselor who can help you work through these issues.

Good luck and God bless.
by starr1   185 Posts
Posted on 5/6/2008 3:21 PM
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