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5/7/2008 7:29:46 PM

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Should I stay or shall I leave?

My delimma is my husband drinks and when he does he acts really immature and well stupid. So I want to leave him but am scared to let him know.  So should I do it secretly or tell him? He acts really stupid and starts being mean to me. He doesnt know how to spend money well and doesn,t support me in anything. 


by mysterious   3 Posts   read more from user >>
Posted on 4/30/2008 7:29 PM

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I think you should leave him secretly. I am the wife of a drug user and I know what you're going thru. It isn't the easiest thing to go thru. I'm there right now deciding what to do. 
Someone once told me," If what you're doing doesn't make you happy, then why are you doing it?" 
I do know the pain and all the money situations you're going thru though. Let me know if I can help in ANY way.
sincerely
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by confused12   3 Posts
Posted on 5/2/2008 1:35 PM
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it sounds as if your husband is an alcoholic, or has alcoholic tendencies.

Have you ever talked to him about how you feel?

you can try marital counseling, and if you still feel you need to end it, let him know there and try to end it amicably.
by spaznskitz   2584 Posts
Posted on 5/1/2008 3:16 AM
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