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My husband moved out about 2 mos ago, we were going to take 6 mos apart & date to see if we could work thru our problems, etc. He's a recovering alcoholic, and met a woman 16 yrs younger & began an emotional affair with her in Nov 07 and it's since escalated to a full blown sexual affair even though she's not clean for a year. So, he tells me that yes, he wants the divorce, and I accept his decision (with much heartbreak), but then he says, well, maybe there's a chance for us, when we have these candid talks, I can see getting back together. He's done this to me several times... what's up? Is he just trying to string me along? Hurt me? I said it seems you really have not made up your mind, and he says - no, let's divorce, but then it happens again (usually when I show strength)... I want to try again more than anything, but this is hurting me so much - and it's making me feel manipulated. I've been very limited in my contact with him so that he can think w/out me around, and miss me - but he's already got a girlfriend.
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