Husband keeps flip-flopping

there is nothing worse than a man who can't make up his mind who he wants to be with.and u never feel the same about them once they betray u. sometimes its easier to just move on because the other woman rarely gives up. why keep suffering and hurting when its easier to just leave someone who cheats on u.

He wants to manipulate you, don't fall for it. Full steam ahead and don't look back. Good luck!

well, I filed for divorce and asked to meet with him to discuss it and said I need to do this to move on for myself.  you've made your choice, now let's just move on to this next logical step - I mean either we are working on saving our marriage, or we are not and since I wanted to, and he didn't, and got a girlfriend along the way... there's my answer, right?  Well, he calls me up to say I just want to make sure that you know I'm not happy about our marriage ending, I want to make sure you know how sad I am (while he's sleeping with another woman!)... I mean, how distraught can you really be if you are in another relationship?!  And, why does he care what I think or feel about any of it anymore?!  And, does he really expect me to believe he's heartbroken when this is what he's done?  I said, well - you got what you wanted, and he's like no... I wanted you, but I'm too afraid to try again with you.  It makes absolutely NO SENSE to me at all.  And then he says, well, I hope I haven't kept you from moving on... like stringing me along for 5 months making me think there's a chance when there never was one.  Then, there's a bunch of financial stuff he did that makes it all even worse, but wants to make sure I know how sad he is... what does this guy want from me?

im going through something similiar and im just as confused as you are on what to do. i don't know if my husband is having a sexual affair bc our sex is steady and hes at home most of the time. but i think he's having an emotional affair and i need proof to prove but its hard because they text each other all day long and he erases his messages from his phone. you might have to consider what you want out of this relationship and what you deserve. don't wait on him to make it for you.