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Stay or Go?

Classic dilemma, to stay or go. I know, a question only I can answer. Why is that nobody will pony up with an opinion? not friends, not strangers, not counselors.
It seems that unless your being beaten or cheated on no one will suggest that your marriage sucks. Even if that may be what they think.
My marriage is not good...but most of the divorced guys I know are pretty miserable. I have these horrible visions of my single life in a crappy apartment with no friends ...ugh.

by lonelyguy 2 Posts
Posted on 4/23/2008 7:17 PM

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i'm in the same boat as you. stay or go. i read this book called "too good to leave, too bad to stay" and it helped clarify what was making me unhappy in my relationship.

good luck. i hope you are able to decide.

by crz15 2 Posts
Posted on 8/31/2009 7:32 PM

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If you are that unhappy get out of it... I think you are answering your own question and don't even realize it. Why do we all question this when we are so unhappy. Either work it out because you know it can be worked out and everyone will be happy. If everyone is can't be happy get out. Why live a miserable life. The thing to remember is, yes it is a personal decision and no one else wants to be responsible for telling you something and you be miserable. They don't want you to turn it around so you will blame them. Your choice your blame. Just my opinion. Good luck.

by bleedinglovepain 760 Posts
Posted on 12/4/2008 12:49 PM

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Did you make a decision? I don't really know much of your story so I couldn't give you an honest opinion.

by MNL 104 Posts
Posted on 12/4/2008 12:36 PM

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