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Should I stay with my husband?

My husband is the stay at home dad and the moment I get home from work our son becomes my resposibility. While he is at home all he does is watch TV and play on the computer. There are toys scattered all over the house, dishes all over, and trash etc in the couch cushions. I spend the first hour home picking up after him and our son. I'm sick and tired of it. I've told him and he has not changed one bit. Some of my co-workers started dancing and I would go with them. I love to dance and my husband hates it. I am engaging in an affair with one of the guys I go dancing with from work. He treats me like a queen and is so good with my son. The other guy makes me feel like I'm his whole world and he would give me the world. I want to leave my husband and be with this other guy but I don't want to hurt my husband. Part of me wishes that my husband with just change his ways but I know he wont. I have asked him what he would do to keep me and he says he would just let me go.

by flower_1101 7 Posts
Posted on 4/16/2008 2:21 PM

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Go ahead and divorce him. You know that since he does not work you will probably have to pay child support and spousal maintenance. Enjoy the new guy that will turn into the old guy and then what will you do? Go to another new guy. You need to work it out with your husband, either staying together or divorcing BEFORE you bring in a third party into the relationship.

by Valmet 102 Posts
Posted on 6/20/2008 12:15 PM

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