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Jealous/Obsessive Husband

I have been married for 14 yrs and have lived with the most jealous obsessive husband and am now contemplating a divorce.  I am 37yrs old and have not had a great childhood with a verbally abusive step-father.  Now my husband is the same way, calling me a liar over things that I havent lied about and every job I have had he has had me sleeping with every guy at every place.  If I am 5 minutes late coming home it is like an interrogation as to where I have been.  I work two jobs and have two kids that are constantly with me, when I do go out with my girlfriend it always turns into a fight.  Should I feel guilty for not wanting to live this way anymore?  I have tried to put up with it, talk about it and it doesnt do any good.  If anyone can relate please offer up some advice, I am torn in my decision making because I feel like the bad guy. 

by SK8Nina   3 Posts
Posted on 4/15/2008 1:11 PM

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Will he consider counseling? If not, you are going to have to ask yourself if this is how you want to live. It doesn't make you the bad guy to want to be happy or to not live with unreasonable jealousy. If you are working two jobs, what is he doing?
by militaryp   5614 Posts
Posted on 11/3/2008 11:39 PM

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