ok, I didn't spell check and I'm multitasking - I do know how to spell attorney - really. lol

oh hell no...did I say no yet? If not H E double hockey sticks NO!

I got your other post to me on my journal and he is trying to fleece you - you are entitled to a lot more, including his retirement - and you do not back down from it.

You want to get to an attorney and file first, especially of you are in a "fault" divorce state (you don't say where you are) you will have an even larger advantage and entitlement if you file - you don't want him trying to get away with a settled, no-fault divorce.

You said he told you that there is no actual calculator for support & alimony - BS - actually, the military has very strict rules about CS/alimony and they ensure the enlisted don't go deadbeat - you also can be entitled to up to 60% of his pay & allowances - hense why he wants to settle, because he knows it.

Find a civilian attoreny familiar with military divorces - get what you deserve for yourself and your child(ren)