He wants to move back home...

Well, my husband told me today that he wants to come home. He has been out of the house for about a month after I found out that he was having an affair.  Since finding this out, I also found out that over the past 2  years (at least) he has been dating other women he has met through online dating sites and frequenting strip clubs.  He says did all of this because he felt lonely and empty due to lack of affection and attention and was looking to fill the void-lack of sex is what it boils down to.  I totally admit that our relationship (8 years together, 5 married with one child) was not even close to perfect, but my arguement is that instead of wandering away, he should have done more at home to work on he marriage.  Anyway...before I begin to unravel, my concern is that he wants to move back home to work on us...go to therapy and be close to his family because he is getting use to not seeing his child every day and we are growing further apart.  I don't know if I can handle him being at home...we've only been to one counseling session and he didn't like the counselor because of what she had to say to him...and everything that I know about his "relationships" is still too fresh in my mind...I just want to punch him in the head ...Plus, I don't even know what I want-work things out or chuck it...is working things out is even worth our time....that's what I am asking....will working things out be worth it, or a waste?  what do other people think..people who have been in this situation...? 

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